A letter to my younger self Dear me, You are eighteen. What could I possibly tell you? Well, let me start. I'll try to be brief: Alcohol, nicotine and other toxins will bring ruin into your life and into your relationships. Therefore, abstain as much as possible. And pay far less attention to that member that's warring between your legs - difficult, I know. You are far more than just an animal, fun though that may seem at times. Find ways to respect your parents, and not to blame them. Like you, they are casualties of this world - though not entirely helpless - trying to negotiate their own lives. Perhaps also try to forgive your brother (who will die young, by the way). Take more care in picking your friends. Test them first and, if they pass, accept them for who and what they are. Stay humble but be confident. Don't be in a hurry to marry. Pick wisely, if at all, and learn to be devoted, loving and contented. As for having children ... well, I'm the last person in ...
